Easy steps to transform failure into success

Have you ever failed at accomplishing something?

Well, if you are honest with yourself, your answer will be YES and you are not alone because every human being has one time or another experienced failures and setbacks in his or her life!

Usually, when you try to accomplish something, there are only two possibilities, you either succeed or you fail! That is it! You have only two choices, failure or success. 

We all have been taught from early childhood that success is OK and acceptable and that failure is not OK and not acceptable. That is why you always try and do your best to attract success and avoid failure! 

But logically, in order to avoid something, you have to know what to avoid? So in order to avoid failure, you have to answer the question, what is failure?

Well, I guess that you know exactly what does failure means to you, but I invite you to look at it from another perspective, compare this perspective to yours and see if this perspective can help you.

Failure is an emotion and to understand it, you have to start from yourself!
You have to realize that there are the REAL YOU and the ROLE YOU.

The REAL YOU is your self-identity ... your sense of self-worth!
The ROLE YOU is the role you play or your performance – as a parent, sister, brother, friend, colleague, player, entrepreneur, trainer, director…

When you fail at something, you have to understand that you as a human being (REAL YOU) is not a failure, yourself-identity and worth did not fail, instead it is your strategy, your plan and your actions that fail, it is the ROLE YOU that fails!

Look at any successful human being! What do you see? Yes, will you see happiness, you will see satisfaction, and you will see excellent results, but do not forget that you are looking only to one side of the coin!

Ask the same person how he achieved what he has and how was his journey to where he is now and he will tell you about the countless obstacles, problems and the frustrations that he faced, yes that is the side of the coin that many people do not see!

Have you ever asked yourself what is the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people?

Well, the answer is that successful people understand and know that the failures they faced are only the ROLE YOU failures and they use them to improvement their strategies, plans and actions, while unsuccessful people take their failures as their REAL YOU failures and use them to destroy their strategies, plans and actions!!! 

You have to learn not to take your ROLE YOU failures personally because failing to perform well in playing

a role is nothing more than a failure to play a role and it has nothing to do with your identity and self-worth – the REAL YOU!

You have to understand that role failure is success if you learn from it and it is the opportunity to begin again!

If you want to succeed, look at your failures as ROLE YOU failures and take them as a feedback that you have to improve or change something and learn from them!

Once you understand the above concept, you will look at failure and say, welcome I am looking for you!!!

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